Anyone who says otherwise is either a liar or an innocent fool.
“Looks Doesn’t Matter” How anyone can say this with a straight face, i just don’t know. The first thing that gets me to become attracted to a person is whether they look good or dress well. Basically since i don’t know them too well at first i want to be seen with good-looking people only, of course this doesn’t count if they are already my friends in the first place. (Im talking about meeting people who i don’t know and not people who my friends know. if my friends know them well then looks doesn’t matter since i have something to base the way i think about them.) I know this make me sound shallow and everything, but can you tell me honestly that looks doesn’t matter when you meet someone for the first time? Well maybe if you are a saint, but if you are anything like everyone else in this foolish world of ours then you probably care. (But hey! I don’t know you so, who knows?)
Don’t get me wrong though, im not saying personality isn’t important. What im just saying is that, the importance of the people’s personality comes after the first time you meet. To be honest the first time I meet someone its either i try to impress them or size them up, probably both. The reason that I think this way is that a person couldn’t really get to know another person just after 2 or 3 dates. It is rare to find a person who is completely honest at the first meeting. Try it, im pretty sure you’ll see what I mean.
Anyway the reason for all this is that my cousin and I had an argument about a friend she set me up with. I found out it was one of the friends of my best friends sister… to make things short lets just say she was ugly the last time I saw her, so I decided not to go for that reason. My cousin was so mad at me that she kept saying that I sucked as a cousin. Of course I felt a bit angry as well as wee bit guilty, since it was somewhat true. The next day I told her that if she really cares about it then ill go. Anyway I went and to my surprise she wasn’t that bad at all. I guess four years can change a person. (or maybe a surgeon did) I can tell you that when I got home I was extremely happy that I went on with it. The next day my cousin and me began this argument. Anyway im out.